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Turning Obstacles Into Blessings

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by: Gerri D Smith

“Your capacity to be creatively alive in virtually all
life circumstances will depend in large part upon the kind of attitude
you choose for yourself.”

- Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Author/Lecturer

In almost every part of daily living, there are obstacles
that prevent you from accomplishing your goals. Whether the obstacles
are in running a business or in handling a personal crisis, the
objective is the same. You have to get above it, over it, under it, or
around the obstacle.

Whenever you are faced with an obstacle, learn to see it
for what it is. Think of how you can remove it, or make it harmless and
not so important. By making the obstacle weaker and less important, you
make yourself and your business more stronger.

FIVE WAYS YOU CAN FACE OBSTACLES AND TURN THEM INTO BLESSINGS

Never dwell on the cause of the obstacle. Rise above it and
change the way you respond to it. It only has as much power as you’re
willing to give it.

Check your attitude. Know that you have the ability to control the outcome, and/or to choose the answer that’s right for you.

Think of an alternative. If one answer doesn’t work, or if it doesn’t feel right, try another way to get to the best solution.

Realize that your view of the obstacle is what may determine how much impact it has on your life.

Think about what you were doing just before the obstacle
happened. Don’t make excuses to yourself. Turn the obstacle into a
positive motivator. Then find a way to move toward your goal.

FIVE OBSTACLES THAT CAN INFLUENCE YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS

*** FEAR OF FAILURE. Do you think of all the reasons not to
pursue your goals because you might fail? What if you make a wrong
choice? What happens when something doesn’t work out? These can be mind
numbing experiences. Ask yourself if your fear keeps you from doing
your best, or if you might lose a client or friend because of it.

*** GUILT. No act, either big or small should make
another person feel guilty. When you give your best, you have no reason
to feel guilty. When you trust your feelings and are responsible for
your actions, you’ll have no reason to feel guilty.

*** CRITICISM. The Golden Rule prevails here. When you
do (criticize) unto others, it (criticism) will be done unto you. If
you can’t take criticism, don’t criticize others. Set boundaries
between you and your critics. Try not to return criticism with
criticism. You will be the better person.

*** DEFEAT. This obstacle is all in your attitude. The
more stressed or overwhelmed you are with handling challenges, the more
defeated you may feel. Let your faith work for you and know that with
your skills you’ll get it right. At times, you may need to connect with
a higher source of power. If your spirituality or belief is strong you
will overcome any challenge.

*** CONFLICT. Dealing with difficult situations, and
difficult people can be quite intimidating. What do you do when you
find yourself in a frustrating situation? Are you passive? Aggressive?
Or, assertive? After you’ve identified the specific issue, take a deep
breathe, then act or speak with your honest feelings and get closure on
the situation. For example: if you need to confront someone, be
specific about what happened and how it made you feel. Then get your
point across without hanging on to your anger. Look for a positive
outcome--one that will benefit everyone involved.

Obstacles are only temporary misfortunes. The next time you
experience an obstacle, whether it’s fear, guilt, defeat, criticism, or
a conflict in your life or business, remember that you have a choice to
turn any obstacle into a blessing. Take a look at the people you
interact with. Are they fair? Positive and upbeat? Respectful? Pleasant
to be around? Are you the same? If so, then your obstacles will be at a
minimum.

Think of other obstacles that may hold you back from
succeeding. Recognize them. When you encounter an unmovable obstacle,
confront it and learn from it so that the next time you’ll be stronger
and quicker to get to a favorable result. Be positive. Be respectful.
Be powerful. Be pleasant. You always have a choice!

###

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Gerri D Smith is publisher and host of multiple Gateways to inspiration, motivation, and information for individuals, small business owners, and entrepreneurs. Gerri’s internet business resource offers ways for you to unlock the doors to personal success. To help you reach more of your successful and financial goals, become one of the exclusive subscribers to her Free Monthly Newsletter. For details, visit: http://www.distinctivebusinesswomen.com Or, send blank email with: “Subscribe to DBW’s Newsletter-11AC” in Subject Box and mailto: gerri@distinctivebusinesswomen.com

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by: Gerri D Smith 
“Your capacity to be creatively alive in virtually all 
life circumstances will depend in large part upon the kind of attitude 
you choose for yourself.” 
- Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Author/Lecturer 
In almost every part of daily living, there are obstacles 
that prevent you from accomplishing your goals. Whether the obstacles 
are in running a business or in handling a personal crisis, the 
objective is the same. You have to get above it, over it, under it, or 
around the obstacle. 
Whenever you are faced with an obstacle, learn to see it 
for what it is. Think of how you can remove it, or make it harmless and 
not so important. By making the obstacle weaker and less important, you 
make yourself and your business more stronger. 
FIVE WAYS YOU CAN FACE OBSTACLES AND TURN THEM INTO BLESSINGS 
<dir> 
	Never dwell on the cause of the obstacle. Rise above it and 
change the way you respond to it. It only has as much power as you’re 
willing to give it. 
	Check your attitude. Know that you have the ability to control the outcome, and/or to choose the answer that’s right for you. 
	Think of an alternative. If one answer doesn’t work, or if it doesn’t feel right, try another way to get to the best solution. 
	Realize that your view of the obstacle is what may determine how much impact it has on your life. 
	Think about what you were doing just before the obstacle 
happened. Don’t make excuses to yourself. Turn the obstacle into a 
positive motivator. Then find a way to move toward your goal. 
</dir> 
FIVE OBSTACLES THAT CAN INFLUENCE YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS 
<dir> 
	*** FEAR OF FAILURE. Do you think of all the reasons not to 
pursue your goals because you might fail? What if you make a wrong 
choice? What happens when something doesn’t work out? These can be mind 
numbing experiences. Ask yourself if your fear keeps you from doing 
your best, or if you might lose a client or friend because of it. 
	*** GUILT. No act, either big or small should make 
another person feel guilty. When you give your best, you have no reason 
to feel guilty. When you trust your feelings and are responsible for 
your actions, you’ll have no reason to feel guilty. 
	*** CRITICISM. The Golden Rule prevails here. When you 
do (criticize) unto others, it (criticism) will be done unto you. If 
you can’t take criticism, don’t criticize others. Set boundaries 
between you and your critics. Try not to return criticism with 
criticism. You will be the better person. 
	*** DEFEAT. This obstacle is all in your attitude. The 
more stressed or overwhelmed you are with handling challenges, the more 
defeated you may feel. Let your faith work for you and know that with 
your skills you’ll get it right. At times, you may need to connect with 
a higher source of power. If your spirituality or belief is strong you 
will overcome any challenge. 
	*** CONFLICT. Dealing with difficult situations, and 
difficult people can be quite intimidating. What do you do when you 
find yourself in a frustrating situation? Are you passive? Aggressive? 
Or, assertive? After you’ve identified the specific issue, take a deep 
breathe, then act or speak with your honest feelings and get closure on 
the situation. For example: if you need to confront someone, be 
specific about what happened and how it made you feel. Then get your 
point across without hanging on to your anger. Look for a positive 
outcome--one that will benefit everyone involved. </dir> 
Obstacles are only temporary misfortunes. The next time you 
experience an obstacle, whether it’s fear, guilt, defeat, criticism, or 
a conflict in your life or business, remember that you have a choice to 
turn any obstacle into a blessing. Take a look at the people you 
interact with. Are they fair? Positive and upbeat? Respectful? Pleasant 
to be around? Are you the same? If so, then your obstacles will be at a 
minimum. 
Think of other obstacles that may hold you back from 
succeeding. Recognize them. When you encounter an unmovable obstacle, 
confront it and learn from it so that the next time you’ll be stronger 
and quicker to get to a favorable result. Be positive. Be respectful. 
Be powerful. Be pleasant. You always have a choice! ### 
 
 Article Source: <a href="http://www.serverforever.com" target="_blank">Serverforever.com</a> About the Author: Gerri D Smith is publisher and host of multiple Gateways to
inspiration, motivation, and information for individuals, small
business owners, and entrepreneurs. Gerri’s internet business resource
offers ways for you to unlock the doors to personal success. To help
you reach more of your successful and financial goals, become one of
the exclusive subscribers to her Free Monthly Newsletter. For details,
visit: <a target="new" href="http://www.distinctivebusinesswomen.com/">http://www.distinctivebusinesswomen.com</a> Or, send blank email with: “Subscribe to DBW’s Newsletter-11AC” in Subject Box and mailto: gerri@distinctivebusinesswomen.com




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