Quality Time?

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 by: Gary E. Anderson

From the book Spider’s Big Catch

Gary Anderson

www.abciowa.com

There's a phrase that’s become popular over the past few
years that fills me with wonder. That phrase is "quality time." We've
all heard it, and we all seem to accept it as a real concept. But to
the average country person, that phrase is difficult to comprehend.

Here's what I mean. Last summer, my 10-year-old son Cody
and I spent an entire day walking the fields, checking fences. When we
saw a post that needed straightening or a strand of wire that needed to
be tightened, we set right to work. Sweat poured across our faces, our
shirts grew soaked from the hard work we were engaged in. But as we
strained against the task at hand, we talked about his little league
baseball team and how he could improve his hitting to the opposite
field.

Then, as we walked a little farther down the fence
line, we laughed till we cried when a covey of quail nearly gave us a
heart attack as they exploded out of the grass in front of us. We heard
the amazingly varied call of a cardinal in the woods off to our right.
We saw two red-tailed hawks circling lazily over our heads, and
marveled at how they could see field mice at such a height.

It was a typical day for us, father and son. We weren't
doing anything "special." We were working. And yet, I know from similar
experiences with my own dad when I was Cody's age that days like these
would be the ones that came to mind once he’d grown up and had children
of his own.

So I ask again: was that "quality time?"

Think back to your own childhood. What things do you
remember most about your parents? Was it the fact that your dad worked
16 hours a day at the office, and fell asleep on the couch on the
weekends because he was too exhausted to move? No, I'm willing to wager
that's not what you remember. More likely, you remember the time you
went for a long walk along the country road in the rain and came home
looking like not only something the cat had dragged in, but something
he'd dragged in and forgotten under the refrigerator for a month.

It's been said that kids spell "love" ... t-i-m-e, and I couldn’t agree more.

So the next time you hear yourself thinking that you'll
make it up to your daughter when she asks you to play "Chutes and
Ladders" for the seven millionth time, remember: your kids are watching
you, and it doesn't matter how young they are; they know how to spell
the word "quality," too.

Strangely enough, to our kids, the word "quality" is spelled exactly the same as the word "love."

They’re both spelled T-I-M-E.

© 2004. Gary E. Anderson. All rights reserved.

About the Author

Gary Anderson is a freelance writer, editor, ghostwriter, and manuscript analyst, living on a small Iowa farm. He’s published more than 500 articles and four books. He’s also ghosted a dozen books, edited more than 30 full-length manuscripts, produced seven newsletters, and has done more than 800 manuscript reviews for various publishers around the nation. If you need writing or editing help, visit Gary’s website at www.abciowa.com.

abciowa@alpinecom.net

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