The Rep

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 by: Keith D Commiskey

As a young girl, while growing up in Junior High, if you
show that you are too eager to be with boys, or even a certain boy, you
will, sooner or later, be seen as "desperate". Come High School,
reputation becomes more important (to girls) than looks. Imagine if you
have a bad hair day, your next day you can still shine. But if you get
a bad rep one day, your entire year can suffer. At least that's the
case in High School (in Junior High your bad rep is forgotten the
moment someone else becomes news).

Boys, by their very nature, are, and will always be,
desperate creatures. This is a given. Therefore, it is the
responsibility of the girl to make sure that this evolutionary process
is maintained. That is, they cannot let show that they are "eager" to
be with this boy, then that boy. And if a boy is able to come between
to girl friends, they've turned the tables. This is not good for either
girl. Only the most charming boys can pull this off, but it can be
done. And these are the guys that you'll want to be with the most! Be
very careful girls, because this can be the "life or death" of your
reputation in High School (and yes, it begins in Junior High).

So, girls, in keeping with the tradition, and for the
future of all girls, never let a guy see your eagerness to be with him.
"Hard To Get" works like a charm, and is the single biggest advantage
of girls over boys (and even women over men). Never let a guy come
between you and your friends. Never, ever, let a guy feel as though
they have the control over you; or, as sure as the sun came up this
morning, they will take that control, and never give it back. Keep them
guessing. Keep them eager to want you. Keep "them" desperate!

The way to accomplish this is by never letting a guy get
the "Hard To Get" advantage over you. You must make him feel like
you're self-sufficient and that you can live without him, while at the
same time showing little signs here and there that you are interested.
A boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will last much longer if you don't
blurt out, "YES!" when he asks you to the next dance (and yes, he must
ask "you") or asks if he can sit with you during lunch. Think about it
for a second, and then calmly reply, "Sure. That sounds good." There
are thousands of proven ways to make them want to be with you even
more.

Remember, if you'd like to guarantee yourself a great
reputation in High School, you have to show restraint in Junior High.
Never let them see you sweat :) And never, ever let them see your
desperation, no matter how desperate you really are! The girls that the
(important) boys want most in High School are the girls that have
restraint and dignity. Boys do not. These are the girls the geeks stay
away from because they think, "She'd never like me." They're the girls
the jocks say, I'll take her, and her, and her ... They're the girls
that the intelligent, good looking boy knows, to get with her, he must
also spend time with, and like to be with, her one or two
not-so-good-looking friends.

The most important thing to remember, above all, is that
a great looking guy won't necessarily take out the trash, show respect
for you by opening the door for you, or get up in the middle of the
night to feed the baby. So while you're gawking at that "Ashton
Kutcher" look-alike, take a step back and see if he's also got some
"Mekhi Phifer" in him. Great looks are second to reputation in High
School. And while immaturity will show your age, it'll end up leaving
you with only the geeks to choose from. Being mature makes for an
awesome and long-lasting reputation with the guy who will take the time
to make it past the "Hard To Get" routine. It'll get you that guy of
your dreams!

About the Author

Keith D Commiskey is the husband to a great wife, and step-dad to one great daughter turning teen. Keith does graphics and web design by day; and is a father, husband and entrepreneur by night. He established himself as a web and database developer beginning in 1995, and has layered those talents on top of his graphics and computer animation experience which he began 1991. Hi is the sole creator and owner of two sites with creative thoughts that just won't stop: http://www.giftsforyou.biz and http://www.kdcinfo.com

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